Well we finally found a safe and nice place for annie :( it is a relief but it also a sign that she is so far gone only professionals can take care of Annie. After asking other family members to help financially I got unexpected results: Grandma(yes Annie's mom is still alive) said she would contribute, while her other daughter (Melissa) decided she would have to ask husband Dave Bowman if it would be okay. As she asked him while i was on the phone we heard screaming and nastiness that would not be polite in front of any small children or people who are not dead. So several weeks later I received a letter from Melissa and she stated they could indeed provide 300.00 and i was so relieved. Then i read on, it would be an "exchange" she wanted Annie's hutch, hummels, coffee table/trunks and half of her crockery pieces. Now most of this stuff is ancient/I mean antiques, which i could easily sell in total for 3000.00 and at this point i realized exactly what Melissa wanted: STUFF. She does not care about her mum just her mum's valuables it was at this point that i decided (yes at times even i can be nasty) that i will sell whatever i can to continue to care for Annie(and if that means my sister gets a little pain, BONUS). Peace Out, because at this point that is all i can offer the world.
